Unlike a bog standard “hand job”, a lingam massage not only involves stroking and massaging the penis, but also incorporates more advanced techniques, including the perineum and testicles. Lingam, which translates to ‘wand of light’, is the Sanskrit word for penis, and is regarded as sacred in the practice of Tantra. As a result, the Lingam massage was created to honour men and of course to give them pleasure and profound relief. However, performing a Lingam massage requires skill that goes deeper than just physically stimulating the penis; it requires knowledge of the bodies’ energies (chakras) and the ability to read and manage them. In order to perform a truly authentic lingam massage, you must approach your man’s body as if it were a temple; remaining respectful of it and handling it with great care. So, if you want to give your partner a wave of multiple orgasms, here’s what you need to do:
Relax your partner
The most important thing to remember when it comes to performing any kind of massage is: that relaxation is paramount! In order for your partner to experience the ultimate pleasure, his body, mind and soul all need to be open and relaxed. Begin by transforming your chosen room into a haven of tranquillity. Light some candles and play some soothing music from a playlist whilst your partner takes a hot shower and cleanses his body. When he returns, have him lie on his back (either on a bed or the floor) with his legs spread apart and his knees bent. Encourage him to breathe deeply and try to do the same. This will ease you both into the massage to come, because after all, you’ll probably be a little nervous too. As well as this, using special breathing techniques is what separates Tantric practice from regular sex. First of all, it allows you to develop a deeper feeling of worship, mindfulness and meditation, but will also heighten your sexual intuition.
Use Lubrication
Although lubrication comes in various forms, we would always suggest that you do some research beforehand and find an oil or gel that is best for you. Start by applying some of the massage oil or lube to the lingam and testicles and begin by massaging the inside of their thighs. Try incorporating a full body massage into the mix by sliding your hands up and down the length of his body. The use of oil will make movement more fluid, but it will also enhance your partner’s senses. Basically, every stroke of your fingers will send shivers up and down his body, and will allow his arousal levels to rise gradually- the key to powerful pleasure. It’s not a marathon so keep it slow and keep it sensual.
Try different techniques on the penis
Once you’ve well and truly teased your partner, move your attention to the lingam. Start by using a light stroking motion and then switch to a twisting movement after several minutes or when you thinks best. Alternate your grip, using a light touch to tease your partner and stronger strokes to send waves of intense pleasure shooting through his body. Also, try focusing on different areas of the lingam such as the bottom of the shaft and the tip of the head. Touching and caressing different areas of the lingam will unlock a series of different senses that will send your partner’s body into a frenzy. If you’re feeling particularly adventurous, try using two hands at the same time. With the help of more lubricant, place the palms of your hands on either side of the penis and runs your hands up and down. Once you reach the top, gently use your thumbs to massage the head using a circling motion, adding more or less pressure when necessary. Do this several times, and then use one hand to massage the tip of the penis whilst moving your other hand up and down the shaft- it’ll drive your partner crazy.
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