Month: March 2017

health risks of erotic massages

Erotic Massages: The Health Risks and How to Avoid Them

health risks of erotic massages

Erotic massages are like a scandalous secret: sultry, sexy and oh-so-satisfying. They liberate your overworked soul and leave you feeling like a new person. When you get one, you feel all of your worries float away and it’s back arching bliss. And you don’t even have to do anything! You just lie there, close your eyes and feel the masseuse’s skilled hands rubbing oil all over you. Erotic massages offer all the same benefits as a normal massage, but you feel sexually satisfied too. And we all know how grumpy we can get when we’ve not had any sexual gratification in a while. To put it simply, erotic massages are great.

But as worthwhile as they are, there are some risks you need to be aware of. Luckily for you, we’ve put together a guide on what dangers are involved and how to avoid them. Read on…

Allergies to massage oil

Generally, massage oils shouldn’t irritate your skin, but remember to always read the label to see if you’re allergic to any of ingredients. Even if you’re not, test a small patch of your skin before delving into the massage and applying it all over your bare skin.

As well as this, be wary of using the oils on the genital area. It’s usually safe for men, but some women are more susceptible to urinary infections, so if this is the case, always wash your hands before touching the vaginal area and use sexual lubricant instead. It’s better to be safe than sorry!

Condoms and massage oil

Oils and condoms generally do not mix. The massage oils can affect the chemistry of latex, making them more likely to break or slip off during intercourse. They’re safe to use with condoms made of nitrile, polyisoprene or polyurethane. But when you’re in that mood, can you really be bothered to stop and read the ingredients list on the back of the condom box? It’s much easier and safer to switch to lubricant (water-based or silicone).

Be aware of contagious diseases

Because of their sexual nature, there is a risk of contracting diseases. For example, skin conditions such as scabies, ringworm and fungal infections. Remember to always maintain a high level of cleanliness and wash thoroughly before and after the massage. If the massage progresses to intercourse, there’s a risk of STDs such as HIV/AIDs, hepatitis and chlamydia, so remember to always use a condom unless you’re completely sure of your partner’s sexual health.

Avoid varicose veins

Varicose veins are enlarged, twisted veins that are visible on the surface of the skin. They’re commonly found on the legs and ankle areas. Usually, they’re not serious, but avoid massaging these areas. Direct massage may damage the veins and cause pain to your partner.

Beware of blood clots

If your partner is on medication for blood clotting problems or has a family history of blood clotting, it’s best to avoid any kind of massage. Massaging someone with a blood clot can dislodge the clot and send it to other areas of the body such as the heart or brain. This may result in a cardiac arrest or stroke. Erotic massages are, however, fine for high blood pressure. Because of their relaxing nature, it can actually improve blood circulation and reduce pressure.

Be careful with inflamed areas

Erotic massages are known to provide pain relief for conditions such as arthritis or bursitis, but you should be careful. Be gentle when you administer these areas of localised swelling, because you may end up worsening the condition. In these cases, it’s best to refer to a licensed massage therapist as opposed to performing the massage yourself.

So there you have it – the most common health risks associated with erotic massages. Our advice? Be gentle, slow and do your research beforehand! Check out our other blog posts for some guidance or book yourself in for an erotic massage with one of our qualified therapists, you can see our services and rates page for erotic and other massages here

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Prostate V’s Sports Massage – The Similarities and Differences


sports vs prostate massage differences

Massage therapy is designed to relax the mind and the body, but it isn’t always about fun and games! Whilst there’s an array of massage styles on the market which promise to leave you feeling rejuvenated and relaxed, not all have the same effect. Remedial style massages often focus on a particular area which is associated with pain or discomfort, and the session focuses on reversing pain, injury or illnesses. Although theses massages can be far from enjoyable, they’re just as beneficial as the rest.

Sports massage

This style of massage is non-erotic, and is usually sought out by athletes or people with sport-related injuries. It involves manipulating soft tissue (connective tissue) in order to correct imbalances that are caused by strenuous, repetitive physical activity and trauma. Then again, this massage is not restricted to athletes alone- it is often scheduled by people experiencing chronic pain in a specific part of the body. Massage is believed to be one of the earliest forms of physical therapy and is still used right across the world, despite being created 3000 years ago in China, Greece and India. Originally developed from the classic Swedish massage, sports massages are practiced religiously, and are particularly common in America, Canada, Australia and of course, the UK.

When is it best to get a Sports massage?

Generally speaking, athletes are people who exercise excessively every single day, and therefore seek massages when they obtain and injury or need to relax their muscles. Unlike many other styles, Sports massages come in four different forms, all of which are designed for specific reasons.

Pre- event massage
This is pretty self-explanatory, but the pre-event massage is a short 15-45 minute session designed to stimulate the muscles before an event. Usually, masseuses focus on specific areas of the body for this style (usually the area that will be exerted), in order to prepare the body so that no injuries are incurred.

Post-event massage
Again, it is what it says on the tin. This massage works to normalise the body’s tissues and is usually performed within a few hours of the event. Again, this is practiced to avoid long-term injuries and to relax the muscles.

Restorative Sports massage
This style is pretty much only used by professional athletes, as most other people would not require its effects. It is performed during a training session and therefore allows athletes to train harder and push their bodies further.

Rehabilitative sports massage
Of all the styles, this is probably the most common and widely used.  The rehabilitative sports massage aims to alleviate pain as a result of injury. Although this style can be uncomfortable or painful, it is designed to stretch the muscles to increase blood flow and to make them more mobile.

What to expect during a session
Unlike most erotic massages, Sports massages do not require you to be naked. Participants are expected to wear suitable underwear or loose fitting shorts of some sort.  If you’ve never been for a sports massage before, the chances are your masseuse will test your mobility by assessing a range of movements and the specific area of pain. Once completed, the masseuse will ask you to lie down on the table where she will commence with the massage.

Using creams or oils, the therapist will begin by performing various techniques, such as a deep tissue massage and muscle energy techniques and stretches. Unlike classic massage styles, the masseuse will apply immense force which is likely to cause some slight discomfort. If however, it’s painful, the masseuse will adapt her style and apply less force. It is important to remember that sports massages aren’t generally scheduled for pleasure or relaxation- they’re remedial massage style designed to reverse the effects of injuries. As well as this, the masseuse might demonstrate to you some suitable stretches or exercises that you can perform at home once the massage is over, so that you are able to avoid injury further. Although most clients find this experience somewhat uncomfortable, its long-term benefits are undeniable.

Prostate Massage

Although this can be classed as an erotic massage, it’s also a remedial style as well. Like sports massages, prostate massages are medically recognised as being a method of treatment to relieve pain from the prostate. The prostate, which is a walnut shaped gland located between the anus and bladder, is an incredibly delicate and sensitive area of the male anatomy. It is responsible for producing semen, but swells very easily when fluid becomes trapped; however, this is where prostate massages come into it. Don’t worry our prostate massage girls are highly trained and can work with you to achieve climax.

When is it best to get a prostate massage?

If it’s for medical reasons, it’s always best to approach your doctor first. However, if you suffer from any of the following, the chances are, you will be put forward for a prostate massage:
•    Prostatitis
•    Erectile dysfunction
•    Painful ejaculation
•    Pain or burning during urination

Then again, Prostate massages are not limited to men with prostate issues- they can be experienced purely for pleasure- and pleasure you will get!

What to expect during a massage session

In contrast to the Swedish massage, masseuses do require their clients to be naked for obvious reasons. As with most erotic massages, the masseuse will begin by performing a full body Swedish massage. Although this does relax the muscles, it’s more beneficial for calming the mind, which is often necessary for a lot of men at this point. The masseuse will then proceed by putting on some gloves and drizzling lubricant all over the client’s intimate area. In order to ease the client into the massage, an external prostate massage will be performed to start with, whereby the perineum (the spot between the anus and testicles) is gently massaged.

After several minutes, the masseuse will slowly insert a finger into the anus until she has successfully located the prostate. Massaging and rubbing the prostate will stimulate trapped fluid to leave the body, but it will also feel incredibly pleasurable. The Prostate, also known as the male G-spot is a small ball crammed pack with senses- so expect intense, toe-curling pleasure. If however, you’ve sought out this massage for medical reasons, you may find this action slightly uncomfortable at first. Also known as the ‘milking service’, excreting trapped fluid from the prostate can be painful, but will relive discomfort in the long run. Doctors often recommend several sessions of this to relieve prostate illness entirely, but this all boils down to personal preference. Regardless of your motivation, the chances are you’ll want to come back for more!

Do you think you need one of these massages? If so, then take a look at our dedicated prostate massage page here

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Tantric Coffee Massage – Why You Should Get One

get a tantric coffee massageI don’t know about you, but like most people, starting out my day with a coffee or two is an absolute necessity. Without it, I am unable to properly function- or at least, that’s what I think. Maybe it’s a placebo effect, but I find everything about coffee enticing. Its smell, its warmth, its taste. I know that it’s not good for me, but it’s the once vice I refuse to give up. Then again, what if there was a way to get my coffee fix without settling for all of its harsh consequences? What if there was a way to reap all of the benefits whilst neglecting the negatives? Fortunately, there’s now a solution, and pretty much anyone can give it a go.

Tantric, Coffee massages are the new ‘must have’ in the world of erotic massage. Sensual and uplifting, masseuses have developed a way to perform this classic massage with the aid of coffee based products known to rejuvenate the skin. Coffee beans are ground and used as a stimulating exfoliant scrub to remove dead skin cells across the body, either by hand or with the help of a wet cloth. Once the skin has been scrubbed, coffee based oil or lubricant is drizzled all over the body in preparation for the Best Tantric massage service in London to come.
But this poses the question: If we don’t consume the coffee, how do we obtain all of its benefits? Well, I am here to tell you why.

Coffee is good for your face

Although coffee is regarded as unhealthy in many respects, its actually known for being great for the skin, believe it or not. Caffeine actually reduces skin inflammation across the body but is particularly good for the face. As well as brightening the face, coffee softens lines, prevents clogged pores and acts as a chemical exfoliator. Similarly, if you suffer from puffy under-eyes, using a coffee-based eye cream could be just what you to resolve the problem. The eyes are lymphatic channels that drain poorly, meaning eyes often appear puffy when water becomes trapped. When coffee is applied to the skin, it dehydrates and constricts blood vessels, aiding the channels to drain more efficiently. This reduces the appearance of dark circles and minimises puffiness.

It reduces the risk of cancer

Ever stayed out in the sun a little too long on your summer holiday and been left red raw? Most of us have at one point, and it usually comes down to the fact he haven’t applied enough suntan lotion. However, according to a 2011 study, scientists have discovered that coffee can actually protect the skin from sun damage. When applied to burn-prone areas of the body, caffeine helps to protect against the skin cancer at a molecular level by constraining a protein enzyme in the skin. Essentially, this minimises the chance of skin burning.

Improves your sense of smell

Ever been for a fancy meal in a Michelin start restaurant and had sorbet between courses? Well, just like sorbet, coffee beans can actually act as a palette cleanser for the nose. Just like the body and mind, the nose can tire, making the sense of smell less poignant. However, researches at the University of California have determined that the smell of coffee prevents nose fatigue, heightening the sense as a whole. No wonder we all love the smell of coffee so much!

The Reason why you should avoid drinking coffee

It can increase Osteoporosis

Although consuming coffee does have some health benefits, it’s also been linked to the development of Osteoporosis. Drinking coffee causes the body to excrete calcium in the urine which can result in the development of calcium-related illnesses.

Coffee can raise cholesterol levels

If you’re pregnant or overweight, you should put down the coffee immediately. For women who are expecting, coffee can increase the chance of babies being underweight at birth. People who suffer from diabetes can be negatively impacted by caffeine which can make blood sugar levels difficult to control and increase insulin resistance. Similarly, unfiltered coffee can raise cholesterol levels as well as worsening peptic ulcers and heartburn. Suffer from high blood sugar? Steer clear of coffee because it’ll send if through the roof!

It causes insomnia

Most people consume coffee throughout the day because it up’s our energy levels and makes us more alert. However, these effects don’t just disappear when the sun goes down, far from it. When consumed in excess, coffee is renowned for causing sleep deprivation. Lack of sleep effects performance in all walks of life and is closely linked with stress, anxiety and depression. Getting between 6-8 hours of sleep per night is imperative when it comes to brain function, but coffee hinders us from switching off when the lights go out. Although drinking coffee has this impact, using coffee based creams and oils on the skin does not.

What happens during a Tantric coffee massage?

Tantric massages were developed through the ancient practice of Tantra, whereas the integration of coffee is more of a modern twist to this classic style. Pouring the coffee-based product all over the skin, Tantric masseuses use gentle touch to unlock senses right across the body. This romantic style of massage is the perfect recipe for relaxation, but also incorporates sexual stimulation for a journey filled with serenity and pleasure. The coffee makes specific massage techniques and strokes more fluid, but also electrifies the senses, making every touch twice as intense and twice as defined. Although Tantric massages are not defined as a style with a ‘happy ending’, most clients are in fact lucky enough to reach that point. Tantric massages are powerful because the unite relaxation and sex to be one in the same thing, meaning participants are able to experience a powerful, full-body massage, holistic release. The use of coffee intensifies this feeling.

So, next time you drive past Starbucks and consider dropping in for an espresso, reconsider. Tantric coffee massages have all the benefits of drinking coffee but are far more rewarding in every single way. Swap your latte for a green tea and save your coffee intake for your massage- it’s the best coffee you’ll ever have.

You can find out more about our service, especially if you’re travelling to the UK on our dedicated  tnatric massage heathrow page here

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Transform Your Sex life With A Body To Body Massage

Transform Your Sex life With A Body To Body Massage

Transform Your Sex life With A Body To Body Massage

Does it feel like your sex life is going down the drain? Is everything just bog-standard boring and you’re left feeling utterly unsatisfied? Or are you just not getting any action at all? A body to body massage can change that dreary outlook on your sex life within minutes.

What is a body to body massage?

A body to body massage is a special kind of erotic massage that focuses on full body satisfaction. It’s unique because instead of using their hands, the therapist also uses her body to massage the client, using a mixture of slides, grinds and rubs.

What does a body to body massage feel like?

There are few things that come close to the pleasure provided by a b2b massage. A body to body massage mimics the sensations of sex because when else would you have someone sliding on top of you? But it’s not just pleasurable – the masseuse can use her body weight to create a variety of pressures and the numerous curves of her body to create a variety of sensations that are bound to feel you mesmerised. This can press down onto your strained muscles, straightening out any knots and realigning your body.

The smooth sensation of a woman’s soft skin sliding against yours will be extremely relaxing and comforting as well. A body to body massage will melt your tensions and anxieties away.

It’s so exciting, it’ll never get old

It’s a bold statement to make but a body to body massage will never get old, even for the people with the shortest attention spans. You might turn down sex if you’re tired, but you will never turn down a body to body massage, because the sensations are that addictive.

A body to body massage will help you rediscover your sensuality, especially if you feel like your sex life is going down the drain and few tricks in the bedroom can reawaken your fire. How often will you experience a naked woman sliding on top of you? A b2b massage will always seem exciting. It can also help you discover new parts of your body that didn’t know had the ability to turn you on. You might think you’re pretty well acquainted with your nether regions, but an erotic masseuse has been trained to examine and stimulate the sexual areas. Like a brain surgeon knows the brain and its functions, an erotic masseuse knows the genitals and what happens when she touches this area and that area. She will use a variety of techniques to always keep your senses heightened.

Edging: the new way to orgasm

Erotic massages aren’t all about sexual pleasure, but there is an emphasis on them. They use techniques to tease, stimulate and push you slowly towards the edge of orgasm. But just before you tumble over, the masseuse will slow down. This is repeated, so you are kept in a perpetual state of arousal. You are constantly on the edge of pleasure, so it feels like an everlasting orgasm but without the ejaculation and the spasms.

Control is everything

It’s hard enough to stop ejaculating too soon during sex but it’s even harder to control yourself when a naked woman is sliding on top of you. A body to body massage really tests this by the edging technique we just described before. It’ll feel incredibly frustrating but pleasurable at the same time. It’s totally worth it, because regularly delaying your orgasms can make for a better orgasm in the long run. This really exercises your pelvic muscles and engages your brain. The chances of premature ejaculation and sexual impotency will dramatically decrease. Say hello to a better sex life!

It’s great for mental health

Like most massage therapies, a body to body massage is extremely relaxing. There’s something so comforting about feeling human touch and a b2b massage allows for complete naked skin-to-skin contact. Not only that, it’s highly sensual and orgasms do wonders for the mind. Orgasms stimulate the release of endorphins and hormones into the bloodstream that stabilise mood, reduce anxiety, induces a sense of calm and motivates us to move towards things that offer pleasurable consequences.

You’ll feel like a new man

The combination of feel-good hormones and reduced occurrences of premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction or general sexual impotency will leave you feeling utterly confident and content with life. A body to body massage will leave you feeling like a new man. Take a look at our dedicated page if you are looking for the best Asian body to body massage in london

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Thai Massage or Tantric Massage?

When researching Thai massage, I found that some of its basic principles were very similar to tantric massage. Both are forms of alternative therapy, pseudo-medicine if you will, that place an emphasis on energy. The two massage therapies work on the principle that the body is a vessel of valuable life energy, and when the flow of energy is blocked in any way, you are more susceptible to illness. They then work towards unclogging and releasing the trapped energy to improve the flow.

If you’re feeling particularly stressed, blocked and uninspired, Thai massage and tantric massage are two of the most effective therapies to reverse that. Generally, they are most suited to artistic individuals – the focus on energy flow will help with the creative blocks you might be suffering from.

Thai massage uses a combination of acupressure, yoga and muscle pressure while tantric focuses more on sexual arousal. Apart from this one obvious difference, the two massage styles initially sound very similar, so it’s understandable if you’re unsure of which massage to go for.

To help you out, I’ve put together a little side-by-side comparison of the two massages. From looking at their histories and the development of the practices to analysing their benefits and the way they’re performed, this piece should help you decide which massage therapy to go for – hopefully!

Thai massage

the history of thai massageThe history of Thai Massage

Thai massage is a wonderfully revitalising and energising type of alternative treatment. It’s a form of Asian massage that combines yoga, acupressure and Ayurveda. It was invented over 2,500 years ago by Shivago Komarpaj, who was a doctor and friend of the Buddha. Buddhist monks practised it as a way of preventing illness and preserving a good state of health.

The practice

Thai massage works based on the energy (also known as meridian) lines that are thought to exist within the body. Energy is supposed to flow freely through these lines and keep the body in good health, but when there is blockage or inefficient energy flow, you become more likely to contract illness. Thai massage helps to maintain a consistently complete flow of energy through the body, which keeps the body balanced and connects a person’s physical self with their mind and spirituality.

Traditionally, Thai massage therapists are required to complete 800 hours of training. As a result, they are extremely intuitive when it comes to the body, and know exactly where to apply pressure and for how long in order to ease muscle tension and relieve aches.

Unlike most types of massage therapy, Thai massage does not require oil or lotion, so you can be fully clothed. Loose, comfortable clothing is advised. This makes this style of massage much more of an attractive option to the modest, body-conscious and shy people. The therapist will help you get into a series of yoga-like stretches and positions, so it may feel a lot like yoga. For this reason, Thai massage is always performed on a futon or padded mat on the floor as opposed to a massage table.

The therapist will incorporate various body weights and pressures to focus on specific areas of the body and release deep-rooted stress from the muscles. They will combine balance and their own body weight to ensure the right amount of pressure is always applied. Typically, the session will begin by isolating the meridian points. The therapist will apply thumb and palm pressure along these points to stimulate blood flow and prepare the muscles for deep pressure and stretches.

Then, the therapist will use their hands, legs, knees, feet and body weight to gently move, ease and stretch you into a series of yoga-like positions. They will focus on specific pressure points, the areas that are known to carry the most amounts of tension and work to mobilise your joints, stretching them to their full extent. Initially, you may feel discomfort and perhaps even a bit of pain because you won’t be used to your joints moving to this extent, but this shouldn’t be prolonged. If you experience prolonged or unbearable pain, let your therapist know so they can adjust the techniques and adapt it for your level of flexibility. You should leave feeling looser, more flexible, free from muscle knots and totally stretched out.

The benefits

Thai massage sessions typically last 60 – 90 minutes and you should experience the following benefits:

Stress relief
Mental clarity
Increased stamina and energy levels
Improved range of motion, joint mobility and general flexibility
Better balance
Reduced muscle tension and stiffness
Helps with some types of back pain and muscle spasticity
Improved blood circulation, immune and respiratory systems
Overall feeling of tranquillity and relaxed wellbeing

Tantric massage

the history of tantric massageThe history of Tantric Massage

Tantric massage evolved from tantra, one of the lesser known and disused branches of Ancient Indian spiritual rituals. Dating back to 5AD, tantra came about as a type of meditation meant to slowly calm the mind and bring overall harmony to the body. Tantric massage takes inspiration from this by providing a manual therapy version – it uses slow touch to bring about a calm focus and prolonged pleasure.

The practice

Tantric massage is one of the slowest types of massage therapy. Every movement is deliberately slow, prolonged and lingering. Unlike most other types of massage therapy, it focuses on the sexual areas as well as the normal areas, so it is literally a whole body massage. We know that there are certain parts of the body that hold onto stress more than other parts, such as the shoulders, neck and back. We also know that stress can be held in places like the groin but despite the fact that orgasms leave us feeling relaxed, we overlook the power of sexual gratification in treating stress. Tantric massage stimulates the sexual areas as well as normal areas like the shoulders, releasing tension from all over the body so you’re left feeling utterly refreshed.

Tantric therapists follow a precise ritual. Like Thai massage, tantric therapy places an emphasis on energy. That’s why the movements are so slow – every stroke is meant to gently arouse the energies and coax them into full, efficient flow. Deep breaths are also important in tantric massage because it helps to relax the body and prolong the arousal. Our tantric masseuses will slowly manipulate your sexual areas, gradually bring you to the edge of orgasm and keep you along this edge for a prolonged period of time. Delaying orgasm builds up tension and not only allows for a more powerful and pleasurable orgasm, but it also means a greater release of stress at the end.

The benefits

Stress relief
Mental clarity
Relief from muscle aches, strains and tensions
Helps with back pain and muscle spasticity
Improved blood circulation, respiratory and immune system
Better and longer-lasting orgasms
Improved sex drive
Reduced sexual impotence and premature ejaculation
Increased sexual stamina and control
Overall feeling of calm and relaxed mental wellbeing

Thai or Tantric Massage: the conclusion

As you can see, Thai and tantric massage are similar in a lot of ways. They are both based on energy and focus on rebalancing the levels in order to bring harmony to the body and mind. In order to do this, they both use slow movements in order to fully balance the entire body. However, Thai massage is more about stretching out the stresses while tantric massage is more erotic, and stimulates the sexual areas because it believes sexual gratification is the ultimate cure for stress. If you need a massage more on your private area’s why not have a look at our London Asian Lingam massage service.

Which will you try? Either way you should make sure you pick an oriental masseuse to perform this naughty treat, why not check out our website to get the best oriental massage in london.

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FAQ Body to Body Massage

body to body massage faq

Ever been curious about erotic massages but don’t know what they entail? Are you craving a thrilling, unique experience that will leave you feeling totally satisfied? Well perhaps a Body to Body massage is exactly what you need. But what are they? And what do they involve? Like most erotic massages, Body to Body’s are somewhat clouded by negative stereotypes which is why people are reluctant to explore them. However, if you’re ready to discover new horizons but want to know a little bit more before you dive on in, here’s everything you need to know about Body to Body massages:

What is a Body to Body massage?

This is special type of erotic massage whereby a masseuse utilises her body to massage her client. With the use of slippery oils, the therapist will slide, grind and glide all over her client, usually resulting in a mind-blowing orgasm for the participant. Naturally, this massage involves a great deal of close, body-to-body contact between the masseuse and client, making the entire session highly arousing and sensual. That being said, it isn’t all about sexual stimulation. The masseuse will perform expert techniques to relax and knead the muscles, just like with any traditional style massage.

Is a body to body massage sexual?

Yes- although this isn’t the only selling point. This is a sensual full-body massage which is designed to stimulate sexual energy and induce pleasure. This unique experience does include sexual play of some sort, but it can be as much or as little at the request of the client. However, the masseuse will not just dive straight in. She will begin by totally relaxing the mind and body of the client by gently touching and caressing specific areas of the body. The aim is to gradually build up arousal levels, so that when sexual play is instigated, the sensation is more refined and intense.

How will the massage feel?

Of course, any Body to Body massage is bound to feel sensational- but it usually depends on the techniques used by individual masseuses. Many therapists start by performing a classic Swedish body massage, which is often the baseline for more practioners because it’s a great way to put the client as ease. The Swedish massage involves long, flowing strokes that are great for relieving muscle tension. Masseuse will also use firmer techniques such as kneading when attending to particularly rigid areas. As the body becomes suppler, any premeditated aches will disappear and the touch of the masseuse will become incredibly pleasurable.

What do I do during the treatment?

Make yourself comfortable and relax- that is all your masseuse will ask of you. Some clients are known to become too involved in the massage and have started to ‘help’ the masseuse during sessions. This is not acceptable and the masseuse will ask you to stop. The massage is designed to relax and pleasure you- you are not expected to do any of the work. Although some masseuses allow clients to touch their arms and legs, most will prohibit it altogether. If your masseuse needs you to change position or alter your body in any way, she will tell you to do so. You are not expected to do this otherwise. Just lie back, relax and enjoy the ride.

Where will my body to body massage take place?

Although some London salons offer an in-call service, most promote the outcall Body to Body because it is far more convenient for clients. With the outcall service, you are able to select a destination of your choice. Most people choose either a London hotel or their home. Either way, the masseuse will travel to you and perform the massage in an environment that you’re comfortable with. Most outcall service run 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.

Will I be expected to provide any equipment?

No- your masseuse will bring everything that is needed with her. That will include the special Body to Body massage oil, a protective mat, towels and anything else she needs. All you will be expected to do is shower at least 30 minutes beforehand and prepare a room for her arrival. For example, if you’ve selected the bedroom as your chosen room, ensure that it is clean and tidy and that there is plenty of room for the massage to take place. As well as this, most masseuse ask you to heat the room before the session so that it’s warm and soothing.

Can I get a massage with my girlfriend?

Absolutely- in fact, couples’ Body to Body massages are more popular than you’d think. If this is something you’re interested in, most parlous do offer this service, but it’ll probably cost you twice as much as a standard body-to-body. That being said, it’s worth the money. Whether you’re looking to put some romance into your relationship or just want to spice up your sex life, Body-to-body massages teach people a great deal about their bodies. These incredibly intimate sessions use gentle, sensual touch to unlock toe-curling pleasure like you’ve never experienced before. As well as this, after several sessions, most couples are experienced enough to perform body-to body massages themselves. It’s definitely value for money.

How will I feel after the massage?

Most clients react differently to Body to Body massages, but all come out feeling relaxed and rejuvenated. Reactions can range from aroused to emotional, and it usually depends on how involved the client has been mentally. Despite being an erotic, energetic and exciting type of massage, some people do find them emotional. Body to body massages are very exposing, but not just physically. Clients are forced to open up their minds in order to experience the ultimate pleasure- but this can let leash the flood gates in some circumstances. Emotional reactions are welcomed however, because erotic massages are very spiritual and healing. Clients are encourages to ‘let go’ of whatever negative energies they are holding onto in order to get the most out of their session.

If you’re ready to book your outcall Body to Body massage in London, don’t waste any more time and book in with a beautiful, expert masseuse now.

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how to give a lingam massage

How to Give Your Partner The Perfect Lingam Massage

how to give a lingam massage

Unlike a bog standard “hand job”, a lingam massage not only involves stroking and massaging the penis, but also incorporates advanced techniques, including the perineum, testicles and the prostate. Lingam, which translates to ‘wand of light’, is the Sanskrit word for penis, and is regarded as sacred in the practice of Tantra. As a result, the Lingam massage was created to honour men and of course to give them pleasure. However, performing a Lingam massage requires skill that goes deeper than just physically stimulating the penis; it requires knowledge of the bodies’ energies (chakras) and the ability to read and manage them. In order to perform a truly authentic lingam massage, you must approach your man’s body as if it was a temple; remaining respectful of it and handling it with great care.  So, if you want to give your partner a wave of multiple orgasms, here’s what you need to do:

Relax him

The most important thing to remember when it comes to performing any kind of Tantric massage is:  relaxation is paramount.  In order for your partner to experience the ultimate pleasure, his body, mind and soul all need to be open and relaxed. Begin by transforming your chosen room into a haven of tranquillity. Light some candles and play some soothing music whilst your partner takes a hot shower and cleanses his body. When he returns, have him lie on his back (either on a bed or the floor) with his legs spread apart and his knees bent. Encourage him to breathe deeply and try to do the same. This will ease you both into the massage to come, because after all, you’ll probably be a little nervous too. As well as this, using special breathing techniques is what separates Tantric practice from regular sex. First of all, it allows you to develop a deeper feeling of worship, mindfulness and meditation, but will also heighten your sexual intuition.

Use Lubrication

Although lubrication comes in various forms, we would always suggest that you do some research beforehand and find an oil or gel that is best for you. Start by applying some of the oil to the lingam and testicles and begin by massaging the inside of their thighs. Try incorporating a full body massage into the mix by sliding your hands up and down the length of his body. The use of oil will make movement more fluid, but it will also enhance your partner’s senses. Basically, every stroke of your fingers will send shivers up and down his body, and will allow his arousal levels to raise gradually- the key to powerful pleasure.

Try different techniques

Once you’ve well and truly teased your partner, move your attention to the lingam. Start by using a light stroking motion and then switch to a twisting movement after several minutes. Alternate your grip, using light touch to tease your partner and stronger strokes to send waves of intense pleasure shooting through his body. Also, try focusing on different areas of the lingam such as the bottom of the shaft and the tip of the head. Touching and caressing different areas of the lingam will unlock a series of different senses that will send your partners body into a frenzy. If you’re feeling particularly adventurous, try using two hands at the same time. With the help of more lubricant, place the palms of your hands on either side of the penis and runs your hands up and down. Once you reach the top, gently use your thumbs to massage the head using a circling motion, adding more or less pressure when necessary. Do this several times, and then use one hand to massage the tip of the penis whilst moving your other hand up and down the shaft- it’ll drive your partner crazy.

Massage his G spot

The prostate, also known as the sacred spot is a walnut-sized gland located between the penis and bladder. Although pleasure is more intense when practiced internally, ease your partner into it at first by massaging it externally. In order to do this, locate an indentation located between the anus and the testicles and begin to apply some pressure. Be vocal with your partner at this point and let him guide you in terms of how much pressure to apply. Once you’ve warmed him up and his body is relaxed, grease up your fingers and slowly ease one into his anus. Start by wiggling your finger to loosen him up and then venture deeper until you can feel the prostate. Caress his G spot by moving your finger up and down and then side to side and apply more pressure depending on his reaction. If he’s moaning, you’ve got the go ahead to continue, and trust me, you will get positive reviews. To really drive him mad, conclude your massage by stimulating the prostate with one hand and massaging the lingam with another. This incredible mix of alternate sensations will drive him to the point of no return and he will experience the most intense, mind-blowing orgasm of his life. That’s a guarantee. Feel free to repeat this process over and over if your partner is still aroused, but just remember: take your time with it and try and enjoy it too.

Whether you’re looking to spice up your sex life or you just want to treat your partner, performing a Lingam massage is sure to earn you some brownie points. If he enjoys it enough, maybe he’ll return the favour next time, so what are you waiting for?

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The History of Lingam

the history of lingam massage

A lingam massage is a very popular and sought after style of erotic massage. It’s based on the Shiva Linga and his phallic emblems. But how important are their beliefs to lingam practitioners and what is the background story behind this infamous massage?

What is Shiva Linga?

The Sanskrit word Linga translates to ‘mark’ or ‘symbol’, so Shiva Linga could refer to the symbol of Lord Shiva, a formless Hindu god. Lord Shiva is said to dwell within your innermost self, also known as your ‘Atman’. It’s popularly believed that the Shiva Linga or lingam represents the phallus – one of the emblems of natural human creation – but according to Hindu spiritual teacher Swami Sivananda, this is a serious misunderstanding.

The lingam as a symbol of creation

As a holy symbol, the Shiva Linga is something that’s considered to be sacred to the followers of Lord Shiva. While the word ‘Linga’ means ‘symbol’, the word ‘lingam’ in Sanskrit translates to ‘penis’. Thus, the symbol of Shiva is the penis, and because of its holy image and vital role in human creation, it’s highly revered by Shiva followers. For this reason, there are phallic statues erected outside of temples as a mark of respect.

The statues are usually made of stone – either manually carved or naturally existing such as ones that have been shaped by rivers. They can also be made of metal, gems, crystals, wood, earth, sand, clay or even ice. Metal and stone are the most popular and common materials used. The most prevalent statue is one tall, elliptical and rounded construction of a penis that sits atop a circular base – also known as the peetham, which scholars believe represents parashakti, the manifesting power of adultery.

Interpreting the Linga: Worshipping the phallus

As well as seeing the penis as the holy symbol and mark of Lord Shiva, scholars have also theorised about the various interpretations of a Shiva Linga.

The most obvious interpretation is the worship of reproduction. Because ‘lingam’ means ‘penis’ and the other translation for ‘linga’ is ‘gender’, scholars believe that the whole concept behind Shiva Linga and its subsequent practices are to enhance reproductive function. They say that when the lingam and yoni (penis and vagina, respectively) meet during copulation, sexual energies are exchanged. This is represented in various rituals performed using the lingam statues. There is one where a container of water (Kalash) is suspended over the Shiva Linga and the water dripping over the statue corresponds to the idea of intercourse.

Scholars theorise that the togetherness and the bond between the lingam and the yoni in a Shiva Linga is the focal point for energy creation and enlightenment.

Tantra roots

Tantra is the practice of prolonging pleasure in order to preserve life energy, enhancing concentration and reaching a higher level of spiritualism. There are tantric influences in Shiva theory. According to tantra, the lingam represents Lord Shiva’s phallus in spiritual form. The lingam is said to contain the seed, the ultimate soul where the heart of cosmic energies lie. When the lingam rises to unite with the yoni, this results the ultimate exchange of energies, cosmic as well as sexual.

Formation of lingam massage

A lingam massage is based on all the theory about Shiva Linga. If the lingam contains half of the most powerful natural energies, the point of a lingam massage is to help the body control how and when they are released. Wasteful discharge of energy is not encouraged, so a lingam masseuse teaches the man ways to prolong pleasure, extend the arousal period and delay ejaculation.

A lingam massage is also a process of worshipping the penis as a holy symbol. The massage pays total, undivided attention to this sacred object. It’s a more physical approach – providing manual stimulation and pleasure as opposed to religious prayers and rituals.

What lingam control means

Scholars say that the ancient seers of India believed the Linga possessed a mysterious but potent power, also referred to as ‘Shakti’. The Shakti is said to induce concentration and help the mind focus its attention, so lingam statues were constructed in and at temples of Lord Shiva.

Because the lingam contains such powerful energy, releasing it whenever you want is considered to be wasteful. Lingam massage helps a man learn how to control his arousal. It’s important to remember that ejaculation and orgasm are not the same thing. When he learns how to control his ejaculation, his orgasms will be more frequent, more intense, longer-lasting and more efficient.

For lingam devotees, the Linga is not just a stone statue. It is the icon that raises him to new levels of consciousness, spirituality and mentality. It is the symbol that keeps him radiant, focused and in communication with his Lord.

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3 of The Best Gatwick Airport Massage Hotels

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You might be a travelling businessman with a jam-packed schedule or a tourist who’s looking to get back on the road as soon as possible. But one thing unites you: your overworked mind and overflowing levels of stress. Your body is crying out for an erotic massage, and it’s never been easier to get one! But we know – it’s hard to decide on which hotel is best for price, value and customer service. You want to get your money’s worth after all. So we’ve searched high and low, and made a little list of the three best luxury hotels to stay in while you get your erotic massage.

And it gets better! These are a mere stone’s throw from Gatwick Airport, so you don’t have to worry about missing your flight.

Sofitel London Gatwick

Distance from airport: 0 miles
Price range: £135 – £300
Hotel star rating: 4 stars
Overall customer rating: 4.5/5


Sofitel London Gatwick is conveniently located within the airport and directly linked to the North Terminal, making it the perfect hotel for early morning flights and layovers. As an established four-star luxury hotel, it boasts a variety of world-class services and facilities, which include luxury dining options, room service, private meeting rooms and a gym. The higher floors have a magnificent view of Gatwick’s runways, so guests can watch the planes land and take off. The hotel is also a 30 minute journey by Gatwick Express to central London and all its attractions.

Best thing about hotel (based on customer reviews): The excellent quality and range of food and drink options.

Worst thing about hotel (based on customer reviews):  Car parking

Our verdict: The Sofitel Gatwick is the epitome of luxury and convenience. It’s perfect if you have an early morning flight, because the airport is directly connected to the hotel – you only have to walk down the hallway. Ask for a room on one of the higher floors if you want a view of the airport runways, or an Atrium-facing room if you want some peace and quiet.

Langshott Manor

Distance from airport: 2.9 miles
Price range: £119 – £239
Hotel star rating: 4 stars
Overall customer rating: 4.6/5


The Langshott Manor is a luxury four-star hotel that’s located just minutes from Gatwick Airport. Located in Surrey, this exquisite 16th Century building fuses classic elegance and historical character with contemporary minimalism. Although it’s a stone’s throw from one of London’s biggest and busiest airports, it maintains a tranquil and calm setting. Langshott Manor is the perfect hotel for a relaxing weekend retreat or refreshing stopover  before or after your Gatwick flight.

Best thing about hotel (based on customer reviews): Beautiful scenery, gardens and extremely cosy rooms

Worst thing about hotel (based on customer reviews): Customer service can be patchy

Our verdict: If you want to stay somewhere that’s quintessentially English, go for the Langshott. The rooms are beautifully decorated with wonderful views of the ponds, gardens and surrounding fields. Ask to stay in one of the rooms within the original house if you want character.

Windfalls Boutique Hotel

Distance from airport: 2.7 miles
Price range: £105 – £200
Hotel star rating: 5 stars
Overall customer rating: 5/5


Windfalls is a newly-opened small hotel, but it’s very much a gem in the sea of luxury venues that surround Gatwick Airport. Formerly a 3-room hotel, Windfalls Boutique Hotel has recently been refurbished and its decadent interiors are given a lavish Asian twist. You can have the delicious complimentary afternoon tea in the beautiful gardens or head out to try one of the local eateries. With the rolling Sussex countryside right outside, this tranquil hotel is ideal for a romantic country escape, a family-friendly trip or a convenient business stopover as it’s only a 10 minute drive to Gatwick Airport.  This makes this Hotel perfect for our Erotic Tie & Tease massage service.

Best thing about hotel (based on customer reviews): Wonderful customer service, food and location

Worst thing about hotel (based on customer reviews): Close to the dual carriageway so can sometimes hear the traffic

Our verdict:

The Windfalls is a beautiful hidden gem located in Sussex. The hosts are extremely warm and willing to personalise your stay. Past visitors have said they have been welcomed with bottles of champagne and a rose petal covered bed, so it’s ideal for a romantic getaway or stopover before your honeymoon. There aren’t many rooms though so book well in advance to avoid disappointment!

Don’t forget that you can see all of our availalble masseuses covering this area on our dedicated massage gatwick services page

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Prostate Massage Therapy: The Cure For Prostatitis

use prostate massage for prostatitis

The prostate is a male reproductive organ. It’s located just below the bladder and in front of the rectum. Shaped like a walnut, it surrounds the urethra, near the connection between the urethra and bladder. The prostate plays an important role in male fertility because it produces prostatic fluid, which is one of the main components of semen. During ejaculation, sperm travels through the ejaculatory ducts and mixes with fluid secreted by the seminal vesicles, prostate and bulbourethral glands, and this forms semen. Without any of these components, semen will not function as efficiently. And so, a healthy prostate gland is integral to male fertility and reproduction.

Like any other part of the body, the prostate is susceptible to illnesses and malfunctions. Inflammation and prostatitis are two of the most common conditions. Physicians often prescribe or recommend draining the prostate of its blocked fluids. This is also known as prostate massage. It aims to wring out and milk the prostate which will relieve the painful symptoms of an inflamed prostate.


Prostatitis is a urinary tract condition that can affect man of all ages. According to the National Institute of Diabetes and Digestive and Kidney Diseases, it causes around two million visits to medical professionals.

Some of the symptoms of prostatitis are:

  • Frequently needing to urinate
  • Painful, weak flow or feeling ‘incomplete’ after urination
  • Blood in urine
  • Erectile dysfunction
  • Painful ejaculation
  • Fever
  • Muscle aches and pains (particularly in the back)
  • Pain in the area between anus and scrotum

What causes prostate problems?

The prostate gland can become inflamed or infected for a variety of reasons – from bacterial to nonbacterial organisms and an immune system response to nerve damage. The inflammation and symptoms can last for a short period of time or the condition can be a chronic issue.

Antibiotics and muscle relaxants are often prescribed and while they may be effective for most patients, some people may find their symptoms to be more persistent.

What is a prostate massage?

A prostate massage is a gentle stimulation of the gland, intended to release the blocked ducts, relieve the pressure and pain. The masseuse will wear a lubricated glove and gently insert a finger into the rectum and press the sides of the prostate. They will softly stroke, rub and massage the prostate. This will encourage the gland to release its fluids. Initially, the client will feel uncomfortable and a deep pressure of liquid building up inside. But this is normal – this is exactly what’s supposed to happen. Deep, controlled breathing is key here. Once they relax, it will start to feel more pleasurable.

Prostate stimulation will result in fluid release and an extremely pleasurable orgasm. This combination will leave clients in a state of relaxed bliss and relief from the pain. Regular prostate massage sessions will keep the prostate healthy, working efficiently and reduce the risk of fluid blockage. Our Asian prostate milking service can help you achieve this with a professional masseuse

Benefits of a prostate massage

  • Prevents build-up of prostatic fluid (which causes painful inflammation)
  • Improves effectiveness of prostatitis antibiotics
  • Boosts prostate health
  • Eases urination and improves flow
  • Reduces pain and discomfort of an inflamed prostate
  • Improves sex drive
  • Heightens sexual pleasure and orgasms
  • Reduces sexual impotence and erectile dysfunction
  • Leaves clients feeling ‘satisfied’

Risks of a prostate massage

  • Worsening of acute prostatitis conditions
  • Risk of infection
  • Bleeding around the prostate
  • Cellulitis
  • Haemorrhoids
  • Spreading of prostate cancer if present
  • Damage to rectal lining

As serious and off-putting as these risks may sound, they only happen if the prostate masseuse isn’t properly trained or was hygienic. It’s better to go to a professionally trained therapist than to try it yourself. We offer professional prostate massages from £150 an hour. All of our masseuses are highly trained and skilled in providing the ultimate balance between perfect health and mental pleasure. Check out our rates here and our range of masseuses here.

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