Modern day society is so busy on a daily basis that we have little time to exhibit any form of intimacy, and so we’re often starved for touch. Tantric Massages are a quick and somewhat easy way to curb this hunger. Massages are a great way to improve blood circulation, relieve tension, relax the body and above all, arouse your lover. It’s also a way to share intimacy, because it’s so mutually beneficial. We know what you’re thinking – surely massages are only easy for licensed professional masseuses. Well luckily for you, arguably the most important component of an erotic massage – and what forms the basis of one – is the desire to please your lover.

So here are some quick and simple ways to use tantric massage to spice up your life. Get ready to perfect your technique!

The first thing to understand is that tantric massage is a somewhat unique kind of massage and possesses its own special benefits. What many find particularly appealing to me is how it focuses more on our personal feelings and spiritual well-being rather than our physical health and the need to reach orgasm in order to release tension – which is usually the case with most erotic and sensual massages.

Unfortunately, tantric massages are not very common and so aren’t readily available in most parlours due to the specialist skills and training that goes into it. The professional who provides such massage services must be a master of all of the principles of Tantra and meditation.

Create a relaxing environment

Tantric massages focus on awakening the body’s hidden mystic energy, and bring the body and spirit in complete harmony with the universe rather than physical well-being. It’s not a process to be rushed, so choose a moment where you have plenty of time. Set a relaxed mood by lighting candles or incense (or both!) and choosing a chilled playlist, preferably one that is connected to meditation and spiritual awareness. The Top 40 probably won’t cut it.

    Stimulate to excite

Now that you’ve set the mood, use light, sensual and slow movements to bring the body’s sensitivity to a different reality. Make the most of every part, even undressing, in order to build excitement. Be sure to restrict your massage movements to light pressure – think gentle touches and lingering fingertips, because it’s inspired from the way energy flows through the body.

    Only stimulate enough to pleasure, but not to orgasm

It’s important to know about the genitals and their sensitive points – the basics, at least. For the penis, try focussing on the testis, scrotum and perineum generate, as well as the tip and the shaft. For the vagina, it’s the clitoris. Unlike the typial erotic massage, tantric is not intended to bring your partner to orgasm, but rather, to use the energy from the erogenous zones to create sexual pleasure and a connection.

    Use lubrication

It’s not highly necessary, but a massage would not seem to be a massage without one, right? Plus, it adds to the relaxing aura, because a dry rub doesn’t sound very appealing. Choose soft essential oils such as almond oil, which will soften the movements and add to the whole experience.

    Be creative and take a risk

It’s important to allow yourself to enjoy the experience, because your partner will be able to sense it. If you’re clamming up, how will that help them relax? Dare to be creative, and allow yourself to be taken over by sexual energy and impulse. Don’t overthink it and just enjoy the connection.

Why should you try tantric massages? Well unsurprisingly, it increases your levels of intimacy and helps to create a stronger emotional and spiritual bridge between the two of you, because it builds on existing love and trust instead of sex. So make bedroom blunders a distant memory, and try a tantric massage – it’s really not that bad.

If you want to experience this yourself with a professional why not give Asia massage a try and see why we are the best tantric massage in London