5 Great Tips for your first full body sensual massage (FBSM) experience in London UK
- Book Your FBSM in the Right Manner
First of all, when booking your full body sensual massage, it is important to research what has been advertised and to be clear on what the masseuse is providing. A lot of the time the ad can be filled with long descriptive paragraphs but it is important to quickly identify what the massage therapist is offering and make sure you are both on the same page when you get around to booking the FBSM treatment.
When calling the massage therapist, make sure you are a gentleman and are considerate of her time. Be, polite, relaxed, calm and clear. Let the therapist know what you want and be straight to the point, don’t waste her time with indiscreet questions or crude comments. Let her book you in for your FBSM appointment without hassle, it will be smoother for both parties this way and you will have got off on the right foot!
- Be On Time!
When going to a FBSM you must ensure that you arrive on time to your appointment, preferably 5 to 10 minutes early and be ready for the FBSM provider to receive you. Respecting the masseuse’s time is important and shows that you are a good client that will not waste their time. If the London traffic holds you up, call ahead and the let the therapist know! It’s polite to keep the massage therapist in the loop and this will go a long way in creating a relaxed environment for the FBSM treatment.
- Talk to the Massage Therapist
Before and during the treatment, relax, speak to the FBSM provider. Let her know how you are and maybe give her some direction for how she can make the session more relaxing for you. Do you have injuries/bruises she can pay attention to? How about comfort, do you prefer a pillow? Let the massage therapist know these things and receive the best possible sensual massage experience for you.
Also throughout the session give the masseuse feedback on what she is doing if it is to your liking. Is she paying attention to the muscles that need attention? Are you comfortable with how she is touching you? Too rough/soft? It is good to let her know, she is trying to give you the best sensual massage experience and if you set the tone by letting her know it will be beneficial to both of you.
- Respect the Massage Therapist during your full body sensual massage
Whilst it is good to speak to your therapist it is also important to ensure you treat the therapist with respect. Respect includes speaking to her in the right manner but being clear to also respect her boundaries. It can be good speak to the therapist and to respond to her questions about you in a relaxed, friendly environment but you must avoid asking too many personal questions. Let the masseuse focus on the full body sensual massage, don’t put her off and make her uncomfortable, this will only affect your FBSM experience in a negative way.
Respecting her boundaries involves honouring her physical boundaries, don’t touch her without permission! Speak to her, make sure you are both on the same page, these boundaries can vary between different providers of FBSM so it is respectful to ASK before you touch her. Don’t just assume, you don’t want to cross a line and affect your current or future FBSM appointments. It can help to research the different London sensual massage therapists before you book so you can be clear on the boundaries beforehand. Also full body body massage is an erotic massage. Good to know
The final point and possibly the most important one. Relax! Make the most of your time of the massage table, don’t worry yourself with nerves or stress! If this is your first time in London having a sensual massage it makes sense that you may have a few nerves but the more you relax, the better your full body sensual massage experience will be!
Another big thing is, don’t surround yourself with distractions! This means forget about work life, home life, bills etc. this will only take away from the pleasure of the FBSM treatment. Also No phones, tablets, laptops! It’s best to fully switch off and immerse yourself in the sensual massage treatment, you will feel much better for it. Take your mind off all these things and the FBSM treatment will be much more enjoyable for you!
If you have taken all of this in, found it helpful and are ready for a journey into the exhilarating world of FBSM make sure to book a sensual massage with one of our exceptional massage therapists! Our massage therapists are among the most outstanding talents in London and will give you an incredible experience that you will not find anywhere else. Give us a call and we will make sure you have an full body sensual massage treatment to remember.