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Top Erotic Massage Tips

tantric massage tipsAn erotic massage is a massage style that focuses on stimulating the partner’s erogenous areas to provide stress relief and promotes intimacy between the masseuse and the recipient. The aim of an erotic massage is not to orgasm (although it’s a welcome and extremely pleasant reaction), but to integrate a highly private and intimate yet relaxing experience into your life.

An erotic massage is a fantastic way to incorporate an alternative source of intimacy into a relationship and can help to re-ignite or increase the flames of chemistry. It allows both partners to experience pleasure without feeling pressured to perform. An erotic massage, also referred to as a sensual massage, is a great way to bond emotionally as well as physically with your partner.

Communication is key when it comes to an erotic massage. Because it’s so intimate, some of the shyer, more modest personalities may not feel as comfortable as the bolder people. Make sure you communicate beforehand and establish boundaries, so both you and your partner can reap the full benefits of this exploration into pleasurable intimacy.

Set the mood

Prior to the massage, make sure you set the right atmosphere first. Maintaining a sensual mood is extremely important for an erotic massage. Make sure the room is a comfortable temperature. Dim the lights (perhaps covering lamps with sheer fabric), light candles and play soft, relaxing music. The Top 40 isn’t going to cut it this time, so check out Spotify – they have some wonderful instrumentals.

Have a bath or shower together to relax your bodies and start off the erotic mood. Consider blindfolding the massage recipient because eliminating one sense intensifies the others. Think about what you’re going to wear during the massage. Ideally, the less clothing the better because it enhances the pleasurable sensations of the massage, but wear as little as you are comfortable with. Lingerie is excellent because it’s sensual but maintains some of the mysterious sexual intrigue.

Choose a massage oil that fits best to your recipient’s needs. Different oils have different purposes. For example, chamomile, jasmine and lavender are highly relaxing, sandalwood, ylang ylang and coconut smell fantastic and peppermint is great for concentration. Float the massage oil bottle in a bowl of hot water to keep it warm and always rub some oil between your palms before applying it to skin. Cold oil can cause muscle tension, which is the opposite of what you want. Warm oil feels much better.

Keep in mind that oils tend to affect the latex in condoms, so always remember to switch to sexual lubricants if you’ll be progressing to intercourse. Also, some women are more prone to urinary infections, so always wash your hands before touching the vaginal area and switch to lubricants if that’s the case.

Remember to basics

Use a mixture of basic massage techniques and erotic movements. Start with a basic full body massage to relax your partner. Have them lie on their front and always work up their body. Slowly incorporate stimulation of the erogenous areas into the massage. Remember to communicate, whether that’s verbal or non-verbal means. Check to see they are comfortable with the level of sensuality before gradually moving to another stage. Keep an eye on their breathing patterns, body language and any sounds they might make. This allows you to pay more attention to the areas that produce the most arousal.

If you want to be even more creative and take an erotic massage to another level, run your body against theirs or use your mouth or tongue to kiss, lick and stimulate your partner’s skin. You can even incorporate sex toys into the massage for additional pleasure.

Female erotic massage

Lightly stroke the breasts and nipples. Firmly knead the buttocks in a n outward circular motion. Slide your hands down her body and slowly and softly stroke the areas around the genitals. This will build up her anticipation. Once she’s aroused, slowly begin massaging the genitals.

If she’s not producing enough lubrication, feel free to use sexual lubricant. Use one hand to slowly caress her body and the other to lightly rub up and down her vulva. Gently stroke the labial lips and begin applying small amounts of pressure. Once she starts to secrete lubrication, begin clitoral stimulation. Start off lightly and slowly increase pressure in accordance to her reactions. Don’t be shy to ask your partner for feedback and help if you need it. Stroke the clitoris in a circular motion and then switch a figure eight. Keep up a steady rhythm. If she reaches climax, move onto the labia as the clitoris will be quite sensitive and any more stimulation will cause her discomfort.

Once she’s completely aroused, begin to explore inside her. Insert a finger and point upwards towards the pubic bone with your palm facing up. Gently stroke the G-spot, using a ‘come here’ motion. Don’t just move your fingers in and out of her – gently caress the walls. You can continue stimulating her clitoris with your other hand.

Once finished, allow her to relax peacefully.

Male erotic massage

Apply lubricant to your hands and gently rub it onto the penis and testicles area. Make sure you pay attention to your partner’s reactions so you know when you slow down just before they ejaculate. Remind your partner to breathe in order to help resist the urge to climax. Prolonging a male orgasm is key for an erotic massage because it extends the pleasure and allows for a more intense and deeper orgasm.

The penis may alternate between going hard and soft. Don’t worry – this is totally normal and is a highly desirable outcome of the experience.

Start by massaging the testicles and scrotum. Be gentle. Then slowly move onto the perineum (area between the testicles and the anus) with one hand while the other massages the pubic area. Then, moving your fingertips in light circles, move closer and closer until you’re touching the penis. Begin massaging the shaft, taking care to vary the pressure and speed. Softly squeeze the base of the penis, quickly slide it upwards and off. Alternate hands and repeat this several times before reversing the direction of the strokes. Then grasp the head and shaft, and massage in gentle twisting motions.

Now move onto the prostate area. Look for a small indent in the perineum area. Gently stroke your fingers back and forth this region until it softens. When he nears ejaculation, lightly push on this indent to enhance his orgasm. As the massage draws to a close, focus on a few strokes that he finds most pleasurable. Then, allow him to rest and bask in the relaxing post-orgasm glow.

Last minute tips

Caress, don’t just touch for maximum pleasure
Alternate pressures for example, use gentle fingertips and more vigorous strokes
Communicate with your partner – ask them what they want and like
Don’t overlook body language
Relax and let go

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5 Ways To Make a Tantric Massage Even Hotter

5 ways to make a tantric massage even hotter

Modern day society is so busy on a daily basis that we have little time to exhibit any form of intimacy, and so we’re often starved for touch. Tantric Massages are a quick and somewhat easy way to curb this hunger. Massages are a great way to improve blood circulation, relieve tension, relax the body and above all, arouse your lover. It’s also a way to share intimacy, because it’s so mutually beneficial. We know what you’re thinking – surely massages are only easy for licensed professional masseuses. Well luckily for you, arguably the most important component of an erotic massage – and what forms the basis of one – is the desire to please your lover.

So here are some quick and simple ways to use tantric massage to spice up your life. Get ready to perfect your technique!

The first thing to understand is that tantric massage is a somewhat unique kind of massage and possesses its own special benefits. What many find particularly appealing to me is how it focuses more on our personal feelings and spiritual well-being rather than our physical health and the need to reach orgasm in order to release tension – which is usually the case with most erotic and sensual massages.

Unfortunately, tantric massages are not very common and so aren’t readily available in most parlours due to the specialist skills and training that goes into it. The professional who provides such massage services must be a master of all of the principles of Tantra and meditation.

Create a relaxing environment

Tantric massages focus on awakening the body’s hidden mystic energy, and bring the body and spirit in complete harmony with the universe rather than physical well-being. It’s not a process to be rushed, so choose a moment where you have plenty of time. Set a relaxed mood by lighting candles or incense (or both!) and choosing a chilled playlist, preferably one that is connected to meditation and spiritual awareness. The Top 40 probably won’t cut it.

 Stimulate to excite

Now that you’ve set the mood, use light, sensual and slow movements to bring the body’s sensitivity to a different reality. Make the most of every part, even undressing, in order to build excitement. Be sure to restrict your massage movements to light pressure – think gentle touches and lingering fingertips, because it’s inspired from the way energy flows through the body.

 Only stimulate enough to pleasure, but not to orgasm

It’s important to know about the genitals and their sensitive points – the basics, at least. For the penis, try focussing on the testis, scrotum and perineum generate, as well as the tip and the shaft. For the vagina, it’s the clitoris. Unlike the typial erotic massage, tantric is not intended to bring your partner to orgasm, but rather, to use the energy from the erogenous zones to create sexual pleasure and a connection.

 Use lubrication

It’s not highly necessary, but a massage would not seem to be a massage without one, right? Plus, it adds to the relaxing aura, because a dry rub doesn’t sound very appealing. Choose soft essential oils such as almond oil, which will soften the movements and add to the whole experience.

 Be creative and take a risk

It’s important to allow yourself to enjoy the experience, because your partner will be able to sense it. If you’re clamming up, how will that help them relax? Dare to be creative, and allow yourself to be taken over by sexual energy and impulse. Don’t overthink it and just enjoy the connection.

Why should you try tantric massages? Well unsurprisingly, it increases your levels of intimacy and helps to create a stronger emotional and spiritual bridge between the two of you, because it builds on existing love and trust instead of sex. So make bedroom blunders a distant memory, and try a tantric massage – it’s really not that bad.

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About Tantra Massage

About Tantra Massage – Have you ever wondered what Tantric massage was?

Tantra is the path of waking up to the truth of who we are through the unification of opposites. It is a journey of becoming fully present with ourselves, with our life, in each moment. This process of becoming present is deeply connected to the body. Whereas the mind tends to wander in the past and future, the body is rooted in this moment. Here and now.

In Tantra, the body is considered a sacred temple and a gateway into divine consciousness. Sexual energy is revered as the potent life force energy to be cultivated as a vehicle to reach higher states of consciousness and ultimate awakening. Known as the non-dual path, this ancient mystery school embraces the entirety of our being. Both our fears and desires hold precious keys from which we can emerge into wholeness.

Tantra Massage Origins!

The roots of Tantra reach back to the Indus valley approximately 5,000 years ago as a mystical path that simply yet profoundly embraced the totality of human experience. Desire, fear, passion, love and even suffering were considered direct paths, rather than obstacles, to awakening. This was an extremely radical departure from the formal and puritanical dogma of the Hindu and Buddhist religions of the time where women were forbidden to partake in many rites and the holiest of men were living in solitude seeking liberation through denial of the body. Not only were Tantrikas using their bodies as vehicles for awakening, many of the most enlightened adepts and teachers were women.

The Spirituality of Tantric Massage

Many spiritual paths, both ancient and modern, eastern and western have incorporated aspects of Tantra massage. Many of them even call themselves Tantra and all are extremely different from each other. Which one is the real deal? This is a path riddled with paradox, requiring immersion into experience rather than intellectual tinkering and for this reason it is impossible to define in a linear context. Like all mystical paths, it is mysterious by nature.

In Tantra people say that “the path is the result, the result is the path“. Rather than clinging to a future goal of awakening, the Tantric path teaches the full immersion of consciousness into this moment here and now as the gateway into the heart of reality. Instead of denying the senses by way of asceticism or compulsively indulging in sensory consumption by way of hedonism, the Tantric approach seeks to cultivate deep connection and present awarenesswithin the dance of the senses, savoring each moment as it flows into the next. In this way, even mundane tasks can become an exquisite meditation. You can even savour painful feelings as a delicate play of sensations.

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The ultimate truth of our reality is one of unity, interconnection and wholeness. The presence of this truth is hidden by the perceived duality which permeates every aspect of reality. At the core of all duality is the polarized frequency of negative and positive which forms the basis of our experience of reality and of ourselves. By embracing one thing, we reject the opposite and the split creates a separation from unity consciousness.

Integrating polarity work is the process of illuminating the fundamental wholeness of existence by bringing unconscious material into awareness and balancing the opposing polarities that form the structure of reality. Many describe enlightenment as the experience of non-dual awareness. Awakening to this awareness can happen suddenly or gradually but is ultimately beyond intellectual comprehension alone.

Many say that supreme realisation occurs on the level of the body. Releasing a bliss that vibrates within every cell. In Tantra, every experience and encounter is ripe to catalyze awakening and no aspect of existence is more valuable than another. A lot say that this people call Tantra, the “path of Yes”. This non-dual openness to all of existence is the ultimate embrace of the totality of life.

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