Month: May 2019

The pros and cons of incall and outcall massage

The world of erotic massage therapy has certainly taken London by storm over the last few decades, with an increase in men seeking these services and an influx of Asian women training to become erotic massage therapists in the U.K. Although this industry still might be slightly taboo due to its sexual nature and its conflicts with religious or cultural beliefs, there is still a demand for both incall and outcall services.

Although many men enjoy the experience of visiting their local Asian massage parlour for an incall massage, the number of making use of the outcall service option is increasing. We have decided to take a look at the pros and cons of both incall and outcall services, which may help you if you can’t decide which option suits you better!

 

The pros of an incall massage

 

  • Last minute bookings – One of the handy things about incall massage service is that you can book in for an appointment up to ten minutes before you arrive if you are in the same area as your massage parlour. All you have to do is call up, book the appointment and then pop around the corner to receive your massage.
  • Choice of girl in real life – If you opt for the incall massage service you have the benefit of seeing the masseuses face to face before the massage, therefore you can see exactly what the girls look like as well as having a choice to speak with them before your session. Although on the websites there is pictures provided of the masseuses, it is always better when you can see exactly what the masseuse looks like to avoid disappointment.
  • Private and discreet – Many men prefer to use the incall option as there are many different massage parlours across London, meaning they can go to one in an area where they are not known for privacy reasons. If you wish for your visits to be discreet then incall services are great because the massage parlours are usually based in a private apartment or complex that is very ambiguous.
  • Use of other facilities – most of the erotic massage parlours in London provide showering facilities that you can use before and after your massages. You can also use them during your session, assisted by the masseuse, in many massage parlours.
  • In central London – If you work in central London or are staying somewhere central then incall massage parlours are ideal for you, especially if you want to pop out during your lunch break, before or after work.

 

The Cons of an incall massage

 

  • Noise – As most of the Asian massage parlours are based in central London, you might experience quite a lot of background noise during your session if you are in a particularly busy area. Your massage should be a peaceful and relaxing experience therefore this might get on your nerves a little. However, you can ask the masseuse to put on some soothing background music to block out the hustle and bustle of London.
  • Waiting at reception – If the massage parlour is busy, you may have to wait in the seating area at reception along with the other clients until your private room or chosen masseuse is available. Some men don’t mind this however if you want to keep your visit discreet this might bother you.
  • Privacy – Although massage parlours always do their best to ensure that your time with them is private and discreet, there still is always the off chance that you might bump into somebody you know on the way to the massage parlour.
  • Nerve wrecking – For many first time goers, going to get a massage can be a very daunting experience and the idea of going in to a massage parlour might scare you. If you are nervous about your first time, this might add to your stress rather than a source of relaxation for you.

 

Outcall Massage Pros

 

  • Comfort of your own setting – One of the man reasons most men opt for the outcall massage service is due to the comfort of having the session in their own home or hotel room. All you need to do is call to make a booking and then chill out or prepare yourself while you wait for the masseuse to arrive. If you are staying in a hotel, you can even ask the masseuse to come straight to your hotel room door rather than meeting her in the hotel lobby.
  • Luxury setting – If you want to go all out for your massage and make it an experience to remember, then you can make use of the beautiful hotels in central London and have the massage performed in a luxurious hotel room.
  • Privacy – Having an outcall massage is extremely discreet and private as the masseuse can come directly to your home or hotel room without any hassle.

 

Outcall Massage Cons

 

  • Traffic – Although you may select a specific time you want the masseuse to arrive, there is always the chance that she might get stuck in traffic, particularly if it is during rush hour or if there is an event on. To ensure that the masseuse can avoid situations like this, we advise you always book your outcall massage two or three hours beforehand.
  • Family members or friends – Sometimes you might think you have privacy and the house to yourself, but if a family member or friend returns home out of the blue then this might disrupt your privacy and the massage session.
  • Location – Most of the Asian massage parlours in London tend to only visit homes or hotels that are central, therefore your location might not be eligible for an outcall massage visit.
  • Cost – Due to travelling fares and time, outcall massages are usually a little bit more expensive than incall services.

Looking to book that extra special massage? Have you decided on incall or outcall? We offer both in the Central London area please call us on 07990486678 With your postcode and hotel name. We are open daily from 10:00AM till 3AM. You can view our Mobile Asian tantric massage service in London page.  You can also email us with your questions.

 

 

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How Tantric Massage Therapy Could Help Your Millennial Burnout

When I was in university I was constantly being told that once I graduated that I would find it rather difficult to get a job, to buy a house or live comfortably in a major city. This was crazy news to me as in my parents’ generation; if you had a degree and were educated then you would be able to live a healthy and stable life. These stresses are just some of the many the millennial generation (people born between 1989-1997) face and it has had a huge impact on our mental health and stress levels. We are the highest bracket of “work martyrs,” working the longest hours yet not being able to afford the homes, cars, holidays and lifestyles that Baby Boomers and Generation X were able to. Recent studies have shown that us Millennials are making around 20% less than our parents and grandparents, yet being overworked and a lot more educated.

Stress is all around us and it can impact your everyday life

It is not just the heavy workloads and unrealistic deadlines that are causing us stress and anxiety, but we also face a lot of issues when it comes to technology and politics. Known as “constant checkers,” our relationship with technology is quite complex as we are the only generation that was born before laptops and mobile phones, grew up when they began to become a normal part of life and now when they are almost a necessity to get by. Despite being more connected to the world and having the internet to learn and see things we never were able to do beforehand, we are also the generation that feels the most alone. Our use of technology has been directly linked to mental health issues such as depression, anxiety and suicide. Although technology is incredible and interactive in so many ways, it has also left us feeling isolated.

When it comes to politics we are constantly being dubbed “too leftist” or “too offended.” We are trying to break through the racial, class, gender, religious and homophobic prejudice that the generations before us had internalised yet we are constantly fighting a battle of trying to stand up for political correctness. Also, another huge issue that Millennials are highly aware of is the vast Climate Change, something that causes us a lot of stress, affecting us physically and mentally.

These issues have a direct connection with the levels of stress that our generation is experiencing and have participated in the problem that has become known as “Millennial Burnout.” WE have many different areas of stress coming from various different factors which is affecting many Millennial’s quality of life.

Ultimately if something is causing you stress or deterring your mental health, you look to find a solution to help this problem, right? If being a Millennial is one thing then it is being open to trying new things. Luckily this has allowed us to speak more freely and openly about certain things like our bodies and how we can pleasure them not just sexually but on a spiritual level too. We talked with one of our customers who is a Millennial, about why and how they use Tantric Massage Therapy to combat their stress levels and how it helps them when they feel burnt out.

So, if you are feeling a hard hit of Millennial Burnout and are looking for a solution that is relaxing, pleasurable and liberating, then read on…

Dawson, 25 – “My father is a lawyer and so was his father, therefore naturally I wanted to follow in the family footsteps and keep up this tradition. I have always been accustomed to working hard Claire a Thai massage specalist working in the London area.as I knew I wanted to study at the best university and get the best degree level, and I always saw my father work long and hard hours and be rewarded for it. However, since I have become older I have begun to notice that although I may work even harder than my father does, the economic climate means that I will not be able to enjoy the same lifestyle that he has been able to do so. I am not saying that I do not live a financially stable life, but my lifelong dreams of owning my own home by the time I’m 25, like my father did, is something that is looking a bit far out of reach. Years of studying extremely hard and not being rewarded in the way that I had hoped has caused me a lot of stress and anxiety and at times I feel so out of touch with myself that I almost feel numb and paralysed. My anxiety surges through my body and it is very difficult when I have to work long hours in a very high paced job that involves a lot of interaction and concentration. I find it hard to have any time to myself which has also put a hold on any sort of love life as if I can’t spare any time for myself now, how would I be able to do so for a potential partner? Luckily recently I have been coming to my local Asian massage parlour to receive Tantric Massage therapy weekly which is already improving my quality of life massively. Tantric massage therapy is immersive and sensual, helping your mind and your body to connect in a special way. It binds together your sexual energy with your state of relaxation to send powerful rushes of happiness and pleasure throughout your body and mind. IT is so much more than a physical or sexual act; I like to think it is quite spiritual. It has helped me to combat my stress levels and to learn how to enter into a total form of Zen. Tantric massage therapy encourages me to get in touch with my feelings and instead of suppressing them, I have learnt to just feel and let them flow. When the masseuse is running her hands on areas such as my shoulders, neck and back, I can instantly feel the tension being released from body and I visualise with every stroke she is washing away the stress and tension. Tantric Massage Therapy is definitely a positive and great way for not just Millennial’s to tackle their high pressure lifestyles, but for anyone that is open to letting the world of Tantra work its ways on you.”

Looking to book your own Asian Tantric Massage?

Want to book your very own stress busting Tantric massage? We offer a sexy Oriental Tantric massage service in London. Or you can call us on 07990486678

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